Quick Answer
Babies sometimes settle more easily with one parent than the other. Familiar smells, voices, holding styles, and routines can all influence how quickly a baby relaxes.
Why It Happens
- A particular bedtime routine
- Feeding
- A familiar rocking style
- A certain voice or scent
- Falling asleep
These preferences can change over time.
What Parents Can Try
- Let both parents participate in bedtime.
- Use similar calming routines.
- Give your baby time to become comfortable with different soothing styles.
- Avoid assuming there's only one "right" way to settle your baby.
- Let each parent develop their own connection and routine.
When It's Worth Checking In With Your Pediatrician
A preference for one parent is usually not a medical concern. If your baby seems unusually distressed with other familiar caregivers or you have concerns about development or behavior, you can discuss it with your pediatrician.
Key Takeaway
Sleeping better with one parent doesn't mean your baby has a stronger bond with that person. Babies develop preferences and associations that often change as they grow.
Parents Also Ask
- How do I help my partner feel connected to baby?
- Does my baby prefer one parent?
- Why does my baby cry when I stop moving?
This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified healthcare provider with questions about your baby's health.